>>>How can you take advice from people who are so dumb they can’t even tell the difference between ITS and it’s (it is)…?

Some times it is difficult for those who are more cultured or have all there t’s and i’s crossed but I think the grace of God is there even for that. I grew up doing drugs, had a learning disability, and was very poor in spelling. I have over come a lot of that and my grammar and spelling is at least understandable.

Thanks for pointing out the spelling error, I corrected it right away.

Bob.

How can you take advice from people who are so dumb they can’t even tell the difference between ITS and it’s (it is)…?

Thanks for your effort.

Paul

Thanks you for your kind words. They make all the work I have put into this site a joy. It is such a blessing to write about good thoughts I read about or hear from preaching knowing that others will read the same things that have blessed me. To Jesus be all the glory for bringing us this glorious narrow, selfless, loving-Good-will-all-are-heart way.

Bob.

Most non-Christians can follow these tips if there spouse follows them also. Jesus noted that it is easy to love those who love you and this the religious hypocrites do also. But it really take true conversation and true grace to act lovely to the unlovely and if we don’t have that in our heart it is impossible. Pray for God to put it in your heart sister. Grab unto the promises of the Word of God and believe. When you fail confess it to your spouse even if they don’t confess their lacks.

Lord bless you in this life, remember the next life is coming any day now — don’t miss it for the world!

Bob.

I’m sorry to hear about the strain in your marriage but there is still hope for you! God is so mighty, powerful, and literally capable of doing anything! Do not give up hope but instead treat your husband with respect and do kind things for him. “One loving heart set on fire inflames the other” so you show him and give him all your love and eventually he will not be able to resist. Just keep praying for him and ask God to give you strength and patience. Also remember this always “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. Good luck to you and may God bless and restore your marriage:-)

You can sit down with them and discuss your relationship. Start by asking them if there are things you can do different or that they would like you to change it. Then next week discuss the things with them that you would like them to do different. Take actions concerning the thing they want you to change it. Be an example.

Marriage is a give and take. When all the other person wants to do is take then the marriage will not work.

Bob.

Does MIL mean mother-in-law? Do you live with your mother-in-law or does she live with you? When you say the “source of our arguments” who do you mean by “our”, you and your husband?

Bob.

With Regards for a Health Relationships.

Your Success

more marriage tips…
Make God your number one priority
encourage each other
compliment and praise each others successes and thank God for them together
pamper each other when one is ill or exhausted

May God richly bless all Marriages:-)

>>>- Tell your spouse “I love you” each and every single day.

I made that #1.

Thanks.

Bob.

- Tell your spouse “I love you” each and every single day.

I cannot impress how important this is!!! More than anything else, do this! Do it every day!! And show your spouse how much you love him / her as well .. words only count for so much… actions count for much more! It’s just so critical!

Love and best wishes to everyone
dvc